Saturday, February 28, 2009

first citizen or second citizen at the table

..what does it feel to become the second citizen at the table.....
is it when you are not address to?
is it when your mother's girlfriend introduces her son's girlfriend but forgets to introduce me ? as her daughter's fiance?
is it when you so so wish...to tell everybody...that your girlfriend is happy!!but can't because well you do not speak the language..
how many times I have sat listening, pondering, joining on how to be a better girlfriend...how to achieve the top so I can tell her family...yes I am deserving of her, yes I make enough money...yes, I drive a nice..car....and yes....I am a girl...and I am your daughter's fiance..and I deserve her..just like your son deserves his girlfriend....
When am I going to be become first citizen at the table?....may be never...but one thing is for sure....I got the girl...and that is all that it matters....because in her heart and my heart....we are already first citizens.