What a term....... well until today I did not know what this meant..but like all the terms... I found out what this meant...
perpeplexed, may be intrigue, but over all amazed... why do we need to find partners meanwhile we are waiting for the one... is it truly a meanwhile the guy or girl we are dating or is it that we are afraid of being alone and actually finding out ourselves.. may be.
But apparentely there is sucha thing as having a "lover" or a meahwhile "while" you wait for the one.. is it for sexual pleasure? is it for company? is it for trying to fill a void that the other person left or is it just for the hell of it? I don't know may be it's all of the above.
But why I ask myself do we need these specific people in our lives? do we actually learn something from the meanwhile? is it to wait for the real one? but what about if the meanwhile was the one, how would you know then...
and what do we invest in the meanwhile, do we invest emotions, sex, dinners, conversations or just the regular phone calls?
i have never have a meanwhile but then I wonder, was I somebody's meanwhile... while i was falling in love they were just trying to kill time while the one came along... I think it has happened to me more than once...
But now that i know all of this information would i go out there and try to look for a meanwhile... may be in the meanwhile let me try to find myself again.
