oh the philosophical theories of social order, and socialization.....if by any chance those philosophers would have stop and actually socialize and talk...instead wrote theories that try to intellectualize every emotion, every gesture, every breath that comes out of the human being. If person A said something to person B, then person B will respond,....or may be not....
If you are self, but not I, but yet Me.....(get it?)
If you are face...yet loose it in the process....hence...you are that and the social order tells you that you are that way.....
but wait there is empirical evidence that tells me this is the way I shall rationalize my behavior or the behavior of others.....and blah..blah..blah....
in the meantime..I dream about a brighter future...where I can be me...and I can be happy ...and a time where a theory goes to prove that happiness is achievable if A plus B can get along no matter how hard the road gets..how tough the task is, or how long it takes.......
